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In an explanation of a faith-based practice, let it be understood that although our philosophy is based on our faith in God, this will never be imposed upon a client and it is contingent upon the client to decide how or if their own faith system will be incorporated explicitly into their therapy. “Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of compassion - inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us, that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will, which is Love and Mercy itself.” ~ Divine Mercy Chaplet


We provide a safe place for individuals, couples and families to heal and grow.


Each of us has been made for a specific purpose in this life, although many of us find ourselves in circumstances that make this purpose unclear and difficult to find. It is often very hard to understand it all as we live it, but in hindsight, the picture can become clearer. Therefore, we can aid you in becoming the best possible version of yourself by providing hope and healing for you and your circumstance.

The counselors at Holy Family Counseling Center can help you achieve the highest level of healing, incorporating a holistic view of the person (body, mind and spirit) that is grounded in a deep understanding and respect for the dignity of the human person as a creation of God.

It is our hope that you will find a haven with one of us to help you through the journey of your healing.

“The glory of God is man fully alive.” ~ St. Irenaeus of Lyons



Does your relationship feel stuck? Is your relationship with a loved one not as good as it used to be? We can help you thrive in your relationship. Relationships can be very complex, so we are here to help you grow as a couple by understanding each other and working together.

In addition to finding individual healing and well-being, many of us desire healing within our personal relationships, especially marriage. We can help you to uncover ways in which you can get to know yourself and your spouse more deeply, more compassionately, and with deeper love.

When chronic or serious hurt has been present in the marriage, it is a wound to the bond with which God holds the two together. We often want quick fixes and find it hard to believe that suffering is a part of love. Therapy is helpful in reducing suffering and helping you as a couple find ways to eliminate a large part of the suffering through the incorporation of new coping methods, making changes in couple dynamics, communication, and ways of loving. In therapy, you will learn to discern ways of loving that you’ve either forgotten or never knew. You will be aided in gaining insight into both yourself and your spouse, empowering you to strengthen your bond and once again find pleasure in your relationship.

To accomplish this, there will be individual sessions, couple sessions and possibly even family sessions – all according to your specific needs and issues. Every relationship has the stages of honeymoon and disillusionment, but those blessed relationships that agree to move to the working stage can achieve acceptance (not settling) and intimacy, that amazing sense of loving, belonging, trusting which is the good which God created us to achieve. Though this is hard earned, the joy of the end result is its own reward.

“Marriage is your own project for the world.” ~ Saint Pope John Paul II


Do you find yourself wishing your family could just get along? Families are an incredible gift from God so we understand how significant it is for one’s family to bring about a sense of peace and home. It is beautiful to watch a family learn to love each other in new and improved ways and amazing to see how each family member affects the others so deeply- for the good and the bad. Family therapy can help your family strive for the greatest good, with the goal of providing a place of love and safety for each person so that they might all thrive. Life is already hard, but life without this safe haven can be debilitating. Providing the experience of relational healing allows for all to blossom. For this reason, therapy may include sessions with the parents and the children as appropriate for their needs and healing. It is our hope that your family will find a haven with us to help you through the journey of your healing.
“It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start.”~ Saint Mother Teresa of Calcutta 


Are you having trouble figuring out how to parent? Are you having trouble connecting with your child/children? We know how difficult parenting can be, so the counselors at Holy Family Counseling Center can help guide you and provide skills and strategies that make a difference. It is beautiful to watch a family learn to love each other in new and better ways and amazing to see how each family member affects the others so deeply – for the good or the bad. Therapy helps parents strive for the greatest good, with the goal of providing a place of love and safety for each parent and for the child. Parenting help at Holy Family Counseling Center can provide the experience of healing and allow for all to blossom. For this reason, therapy may include sessions with the parents and the children as appropriate for their needs and healing.
“He gives strength to the weary, He strengthens the powerless. Youths grow tired and weary, the young stumble and fall, but those who hope in Yahweh will regain their strength, they will sprout wings like eagles, though they run they will not grow weary, though they walk they will never tire.” ~ Isaiah 40:29-31.


Do you need help fully understanding your complex and changing identity, understanding your emotions, or coping with the pressures of alcohol and drugs? Everyone knows how difficult, yet significant the teenage years truly are. These years encompass trying to fit in with other teens while at the same time trying to find one’s own unique individuality. This stage of life comes with great misunderstanding, hormonal changes, rebellion, arguments, and general struggles. Just as a couple is part of a “society” or “system” bigger than themselves (families of origin, the family they have created, friends, church community, workplace, et al) children and teens are even more at the mercy of the system they are a part of. They are relatively helpless in improving their life circumstances without the help of parents. With this in mind, parents are an integral part of their healing path. If parents are unable or unwilling to participate, the child/teen can be led on a path for inner peace in a possibly difficult trial but this is usually a longer and harder road. It is beautiful to watch a family learn to love each other in new and improved ways and amazing to see how each family member affects the others so deeply- for the good and the bad. Therapy will help your family strive for the greatest good, with the goal of providing a place of love and safety for each person so that they might all thrive and move into the vocation that their Creator intended for them. Life is already hard, but life without this safe haven can be debilitating. Providing the experience of healing of this haven allows for all to blossom. For this reason, therapy may include sessions with the parents and the children as appropriate for their needs and healing. The counselors at Holy Family Counseling Center want to support and guide you through this journey.
“Being in therapy is about finding hope and having someone to go with you through the hard times while offering a road map for the most success.” ~ Sandra H. McKay, BSN, M.Ed., LMFT

Young Adults​

Do you feel that you could use help understanding your goals, aspirations, and direction in life? Do you need help healing and developing a love of life? Holy Family Counseling Center offers counseling services for young adults. The young adult years are a vital time in life for identity formation. We can help guide you or your loved one in becoming self-aware and learning to navigate the adult world you are entering into. We can help guide you or your loved one in becoming more self-aware and learning to navigate the entrance into the adult world. We recognize that each of us has been made for a specific purpose in this life, although many of us find ourselves in circumstances that make this purpose unclear and difficult to find. It is often very hard to understand it all as we live it, but in hindsight, the picture can become clearer. Therefore, we can aid you in becoming the best possible version of yourself by providing hope and healing for you and your circumstances complete with love of and purpose in life.
“To live is to change, and to be perfect is to have changed often.” ~ Bl. John Henry Cardinal Newman

Clergy and Religious

The counselors at Holy Family Counseling Center share a Catholic worldview with clergy. We are available to all clergy, seminarians, deacons, consecrated and other servants of the church.

Programs for Parishes

Programs available For Parishes, Schools & Community Groups:

  • Anxiety and Stress in the Family
  • Grief and Loss
  • How to Love Your Teenager
  • How to Improve Communication with your Spouse
  • How to Improve Communication within your Family
  • Internet and Social Media Issues
  • Marriage Enrichment Programs with Catholic Anthropology and the newest research in psychology
  • Pornography: Latest research and its effects on the family
  • Parenting
  • Parenting Your Young Adult
  • Surviving a Secular Society with Moral Values
  • Theology of the Body for Teens and Adults
  • Teen Specific Issues

What we help


Do you wonder if your life is out of control? Do you turn to alcohol, drugs, video games or gambling? Do sex or pornography have too strong an influence on your life? Have loved ones questioned your use of any of these? Have you ever wondered if any of these escapes are actually making your life worse? If you answered yes to any of these questions, or have thought that maybe you are addicted, however slightly, the therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center are here to help. Addiction is a process, not an event. No one wakes up in the morning and decides that they are going to be an alcoholic, a sexaholic, or any other type of addict. Over time, people find methods to help make life more manageable and these methods have the ability to become toxic. Addiction counseling helps clients retake control of their lives.
“Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish”. – John Quincy Adams

Anger Management

Are your spouse or friends complaining about your short temper? Are you breaking out in outbursts more than normal? Most angry behaviors are not a healthy release as many believe. Numerous research studies show that “venting” anger actually increases it in most people. Anger is not an uncontrollable “animal instinct” as many believe. Acting angrily is simply an unhealthy habit which can be broken through the use of knowledge and discipline.The therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center guide clients in learning how to regulate one’s anger and express it in healthy ways.

“Anger is only one letter short of danger.”~Footprints in Heart by Eleanor Roosevelt


Is anxiety interfering with your life? Do you wish you knew how to make it go away? We can help ease the anxiety that is keeping you from feeling strong and healthy. Everyone experiences some anxiety in life, but at times it begins to take over. Anxiety can include feelings of fear and dread. Sometimes a person knows what their triggers are and sometimes they are unsure of the cause of their anxiety. Anxiety can result in panic attacks, trouble sleeping, shortness of breath, and/or excessive worry. The therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center can provide you with new tools and strategies to relieve you of anxiety.

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” – Romans 15:13

Career Counseling

Are you at a crossroads in your life? Do you feel confused and unsure of the next steps you need to take in meeting your goals? Career counseling can assist you in discovering what the best potential career paths could be for you. This process would include taking into consideration your abilities, gifts, strengths, and weaknesses. By identifying your passions, dreams and capabilities, it’s possible to find a career you could truly love and enjoy. Holy Family Counseling Center can guide and support you in this important journey. Your job and vocation in life is far more than just a paycheck. It is the discovery of why you were created, and how you can make a difference in this world. It would be an honor to help you explore options for your exciting future meeting your full potential in life.
“For I know the plans I have in mind for you, says the LORD, plans for your welfare, not for woe! Plans to give you a future full of hope. When you call me, when you go to pray to me, I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”~Jeremiah 29:11-13

Children Issues

Has one of your children been traumatized? Is there one that you just can’t figure out how to help? Did you lose the owner’s manual? Children are a precious gift from God but sometimes parents struggle with what to do. Childhood is the time when the foundation of who we are is set. Holy Family Counseling Center is here to help you wade through issues that your child struggles with such as behavioral issues, ADD/ADHD, Aspergers’, trauma, attachment styles and more. Using the sand tray, family systems theory, and other specific methodologies, we can help. You don’t have to do this alone.
“Children are the greatest gift God gives us.”~Blessed Mother Teresa


Codependency is an unhappy and unhelpful emotional or psychological dependence on someone else which creates a spiral in a relationship. This results in both people feeling uncomfortable in the relationship. It tends to develop in friendships, families, or marriages where a strong imbalance of responsibility and irresponsibility exist, such as in addiction, long term illness, or absentee parenting to name a few. It can start with one being too helpful or one leaning on another too heavily. Therapy can help you break the cycle of harm that codependency brings to your relationships and help you begin forming healthy relationships.
​I’m not o.k. unless you’re o.k.


Are you feeling hopeless, or sad, and you can’t seem to shake it? Are you snapping at people? Are you more irritable than usual but don’t know why? No energy and loss of interest in normal activities? Feeling stuck? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Not sleeping? Not eating? Sleeping too much? Eating too much? You could be suffering from depression. Depression affects people in many different ways. Depression is the “common cold” of our emotional world. Holy Family Counseling Center has trained professionals that can help you start your journey back to feeling the healthy “you”.
“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”- Deuteronomy 31:8

Family Conflicts

Do you want more peace in your family life? Are you tired of feeling like no one understands or respects one another? Every family sees days of sunshine and stormy weather. Conflict and disagreement are an intricate part of human relationships. Feelings get hurt, tensions build, and things get said that we later regret. The deepest wounds of the human heart are often inflicted by the ones you love most. It is from this place of hurt that one will overreact (yelling, nagging, blaming, name calling) or under react (withdrawing, being distant, numb). When left unaided over time, a summer storm can morph into a category five hurricane with no end in sight. Underneath all the ruckus is a desperate desire to mend the ruptured bonds that bind the family together. We can help you and your family come out of the storm strengthened and more unified.
“The love that family members have for each other is the chief wealth of every home.” – Author Unknown

Grief and Loss

Grief is a natural response to loss. The death of a loved one and divorce or relationship break up are the most frequent causes of grief. However, any loss can trigger grief. Losing a job, retirement, loss of a cherished dream, a loved one’s serious illness, loss of a friendship, loss of safety after a trauma, and loss of health are all good examples of struggles potentially leading to grief. Grief cannot be rushed. It is a process that is different for every individual and their situation. Holy Family Counseling Center has counselors that are equipped to help navigate through this difficult process. Having someone to accompany you on this journey can be a comfort during a troubling time that can be confusing and even heartbreaking. It would be a privilege to walk with you at this crossroads in your life.
“Listen and let it penetrate your heart…do not be troubled or weighed down with grief. Do not fear any illness or vexation. Am I not here who am your mother? Are you not under my shadow and protection? Are you not in the folds of my mantle? In the crossing of my arms? Is there anything else you need?”~ Our Lady of Guadalupe

Internet Compulsions

The internet and various phone apps have become a fun and useful tool for every walk of life. The use of technology and the internet in particular can be a source of enjoyment, education, and business use. What happens when that source becomes more than just useful? Do you find yourself surfing the web for hours on end with no purpose in mind? Do you feel more at home with online friends than with your real friends or family? Determining whether a habitual behavior has become a problem begins with evaluating the benefits of internet use and the feelings and beliefs surrounding it. Some symptoms of internet compulsivity are feelings of distress, guilt, or shame that arise from frequent usage. Holy Family Counseling Center can assist you in determining the difference between a passionate hobby and compulsive behavior.
“Your conscience can’t keep you from doing wrong, it just keeps you from enjoying it.”~Attributed to Winston Churchill

Life Transitions

Life transitions, whether positive or negative, can cause additional stress in our lives. We can be challenged by situations such as a change in relationship status, adjusting to our children’s developmental stages from birth through college, mid-life, menopause, occupational changes, or caring for elderly parents to name a few. The therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center recognize that life comes with many struggles and unexpected events. Adapting to change and handling the stress and anxiety that accompanies these transitions can be more difficult than you anticipated. We can help you cope and move through the maze of these challenges in your life.
“Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day. Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace, then, put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations, and say continually: The Lord is my strength and shield; my heart has trusted in Him and I am helped. He is not only with me, but in me and I in Him.”~Saint Francis de Sales

Marriage Enrichment

Holy Family Counseling is dedicated to providing the tools for you and your spouse to work towards having a loving, fulfilling, and committed marriage. We will guide you in your communication skills, help you get rid of any habits that may hurt your marriage, and help partners know how to enjoy spiritual fulfillment together.
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all selfishness… It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”~C.S. Lewis


Do you want to be a better parent? Are you at a loss as to how to deal with certain issues with your children or spouse? Parenting is one of the most rewarding and yet challenging things a person will ever do. There are so many outside influences on the family today which affect all members. The deep love and yet conflicting feelings a parent experiences with a child can be confusing and discouraging. Often parents feel lost in what to do to help their child become the person God intended them to be. Some of the challenges that parents might face are conflicting parenting styles, personality differences, a trauma or other life struggles involving the child. It is essential for children to have both safe parents and a home that is a safe haven. Holy Family Counseling Center would be honored to help you to become the strong and loving parents your child needs and deserves.
“The fault of children are not always imputed to the parents, especially when they have instructed them and given good example. Our Lord in his wondrous providence allows children to break the hearts of devout fathers and mothers. The decisions that your children have made do not make you a failure in God’s eyes. Commend your children to the Immaculate Heart of Mary. At the end of each decade say to her, with these beads bind my children to your Immaculate Heart. She will attend to their souls.”~Saint Louise de Marillac

Premarital Counseling

Have you met someone that you think might be “the one”? Do you and your loved one want to talk with someone who can help you decide if marriage is meant for you? The counselors at Holy Family Counseling Center are equipped to help couples prepare for marriage by guiding them towards a loving and generous relationship. We help couples explore the intent of marriage as a sacrament and learn about love as defined through the Theology of the Body. Potential issues that could result in problems that may come up during marriage are explored as well as addressing unresolved issues from the past. We can work with you before, during, or after your premarital classes, helping you work to discover your mutual goals, work through issues you have recognized, or just learn more about how a lifetime of love can nurture and grow for you.
“Your wedding lasts a day, but your marriage lasts a lifetime.” The Church encourages couples to invest time and energy into the all-important work of preparing for their married life together.~ Theology of the Body

Relationship Issues

Are you struggling in a dead end relationship? Do you wish the relationship you have can improve? Do you wonder why you can’t keep friends or are avoiding people? We can help you develop and grow and heal in relationship to others. At Holy Family Counseling Center, we can help you flourish in your relationships and guide you to keep them strong and lasting. Relationships are formed from the time one is born, beginning with a child and its mother. This portrays the significance and deliberateness of our need for relationships. The success or failure of your relationships can have a strong emotional impact on your life whether they are basic relationships such as ones with your siblings and parents, or the ones you choose such as romantic relationships or the ones you form with friends.
“It is to those who have the most need of us that we ought to show our love more especially.”~Saint Francis de Sales

Self Esteem

What defines your sense of worth? Do you look to external channels (achievements, talents, trophies etc.) to prove that you are good enough? And once attained, how long does it last until you need to go after the next best thing? When our self-worth is dependent upon external means it will inevitably disintegrate. True confidence is not dependent upon what one has achieved but rather by the internal awareness that your dignity comes from God. The development of self-knowledge is a life long journey. As you come to know who you are as a child of God, you will travel down the path toward becoming the best version of yourself.
“Anyone who belongs to Christ is a new person. The past is forgotten, and everything is new.”~2 Corinthians 5:17

Sexual Compulsions

Many men and women struggle in silent shame with sexual behaviors that seem out of control. I have tried to stop on my own, but I can’t. In some cases the behavior affects work, finances, health, or relationships. If others knew about this, they would reject me. We are here to help if there is a sexual behavior that has negatively impacted your life. Holy Family Family Counseling Center Counselors offer a non-judgmental approach to treat any range of sexual issues that individuals may face. When treating sexual compulsions and addictions, we use a trauma-informed approach influenced by researchers such as Patrick Carnes and Mark Laaser. Additionally, we offer programs for spouses and families that are affected. We also treat other sexual issues such as lack of sexual desire, premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, and issues related to celibacy and natural family planning.
“Out of the Shadow of the Web”~Patrick Carnes

Social Media Issues

Do you ever wonder how many times a day you check your phone? Recent research indicates that on average, we check our phones and log into social media apps 150 times a day! Excessive social media use has been linked with depression, negative body images, and other mental health issues. Use of these apps can increase anxiety levels, negatively affect relationships, and even affect the quality and duration of our sleep. On a positive note, social media allows us to keep in contact with friends and family near and far. It can be a source of humor, news, and other information that is valuable. While we know that everything in moderation is good, there are many instances where social media use can cross the line from helpful to hurtful. Do you think that you may check Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Whisper, or any other app too often? Do you turn to friends on apps more than your friends in person? Do you see things on social media that make you angry, hurt, or otherwise more upset than you would be in real life? The therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center can help you find a balance with your use of social media.
Are they really your friends? Every digital picture on social media is encrypted with a GPS location.


Got stress? We all do! It’s how well you handle it that affects your health positively or negatively. Our therapists are able to help you find ways to decrease your stress levels. Simply talking through your struggles with a therapist can be a relief. We can help you to find better ways to handle stress enabling you to add to your toolbox of coping skills.

Stress is an emotional, physiological, and adaptive response to stimuli in the environment. Although some stress serves as highly beneficial to human functioning and efficiency, it can also be damaging to our health if it occurs frequently and over an extended period of time. Chronic stress can negatively affect all of the body’s organs and systems. Repeatedly undergoing the fight or flight response, for instance, contributes to greater wear and tear on artery walls, consequently increasing the risk of a heart attack. Chronic stress can also lead to memory loss, decreased immunity to viruses, and increased inflammation. The therapists at Holy Family Counseling Center want to help you improve your health by helping you discover new ways to reduce and manage your stress.

Teen Issues

The teenage years can be unsettling and challenging. Our counselors at Holy Family Family Counseling Center understand the emotional, physical, moral, and psychological changes that occur during adolescence and are prepared to help your teen with facing this transitional period. Our counselors stay up to date on the many unique issues that teens deal with in today’s world, such as self-esteem and body image, stress, depression, substance use, social media, and bullying.
Growing up is hard.


When past wounds interfere with your everyday life, we are here to help you in your healing journey. Trauma can involve one devastating incident or years of abuse and neglect. It can take many forms: physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and/or sexual. Holy Family Counseling Center uses a trauma-informed approach to treatment with empirically validated treatments such as CBT and EMDR. We also include a spiritual healing component, if desired. Since we often manage our past wounds in unhealthy ways, it helps to learn ways to cope with current stressors, heal relationships, and experience life to the fullest. Although trauma can be devastating, it does not have to rule your life. We are here to help you find peace and a new sense of joy and freedom.
“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.”~C.S. Lewis


“Authentically You”

This program will help your teen celebrate her God-given strengths and uniqueness, develop more confidence, learn how to manage stress and anxiety as well as learn about true friendship and how to have better relationships.


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For more information or to reserve your spot in these groups,
call us at: 678-993-8494